Help! I Need Somebody!

by Dave Treat on September 27, 2009

in Miscellaneous,Small Group Life

John_Lennon_1964On April 13, 1965 the Beatles entered Abbey Road Studios in London, and recorded another Lennon/McCartney hit. It took them 12 takes to get it right:

Help, I need somebody,
Help, not just anybody,
Help, you know I need someone, help.

Less than a year later, 25 year-old John Lennon caused a worldwide scandal by saying:

“Christianity will go. It will vanish and shrink. I needn’t argue about that; I’m right and I will be proved right. We’re more popular than Jesus now…”

But… he wasn’t right. The Beatles were popular, but all they proved was that popularity doesn’t alleviate loneliness. Several years later Lennon said this:

“When ‘Help!’ came out in 1965, I was actually crying out for help. I didn’t realize it at the time; I just wrote the song because I was commissioned to write it for the movie. But later, I knew I was really crying out for help.”

It’s right there in the lyrics, if you look for it:

When I was younger, so much younger than today,
I never needed anybody’s help in any way.

But now these days are gone, I’m not so self-assured,
Now I find I’ve changed my mind and opened up the doors.

John Lennon was right about this: We all need somebody. And he’s not the only one who has cried out for community. Shortly after we were married, my wife, Vicki had a tubal pregnancy and was literally bleeding to death. As she was rushed into surgery I sat alone in the waiting room to pray. Although we were very active in church and had lots of friends, we didn’t have the kind of “one-another” small group I could call at 2 AM to say:

Help me if you can, I’m feeling down
and I do appreciate you being round.
Help me get my feet back on the ground,
won’t you please, please help me.

Years later, we found that kind of community. When Vicki’s mom died our whole small group made a five-hour round trip to be with us. When our small group leader had surgery last year, we all waited together at the hospital.

We share meals together, laugh together, and cry together. We look to the group for guidance and encouragement. We hold each other accountable in a way that can only happen in a small group. Now

my life has changed in oh so many ways;
My (former) independence seems to vanish in the haze.

What if John Lennon had that kind of community? There is ample evidence that John trusted Christ late in life, but got sucked back into the occult and alternate worldviews held by those closest to him. What if his cry for “Help!” was answered by a small group of Christ-followers who were committed to helping one another grow in Christ?

We’ll never know how a small group might have helped John. But I can predict with certainty how it would help you.

{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

Suzy Q September 27, 2009 at 9:41 pm

Dave,
You have a gift as a writer! You have the unique ability to take one of your experiences, combine it with a story from history and weave them together to highlight a truth … a truth that we all need to love and be loved… truth that God is love and truth that God shows up in small groups where friends love one another.
I loved how you built a case for the importance of a small group in our lives. Everybody thinks that someone as popular as John Lennon has it all together and doesn’t have a need for a Small Group …when in fact as his story goes, he was desperate for friends he could rely on, friends who would be there for him in his good times and the bad, friends who would “help” him and friends who would love him…..sounds just like my friends in our Small Group, would have been a perfect answer to John’s cry for “HELP!”
The words in the song, “HELP” could actually be an acronym for….His Everlasting Love Provides!
Speaking from my own experience, I have really been blessed by yours and Vicki’s friendship over these last few years. You two and the others in our group have been there for Tom and I in good times and bad, you have loved us even when it was hard to love ourselves and prayed for God’s “HELP” in many different situations in our lives. God sent “HELP” when He sent us friends like you and Vicki and our Small Group. We have been blessed. I am grateful for the friendship and the love I have found in our group….it has been such a HELP to me in growing closer to God.

Suzy Q

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Dave Treat September 27, 2009 at 10:13 pm

Thanks, Suzy Q!

This post is from the message I gave at Mt. Pleasant, MI last week. I ended with the story of our small group communion around the fire pit at Lake Geneva. Vicki and I are so glad to have you, Tom and the others in our lives. You have been of immeasurable Help!

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Heather Thomas September 28, 2009 at 12:04 pm

Dave,
Thank you for adding this to your blog. You did an amazing job communicating all of the “oneanothers” and weaving the Beatles into it.

It was a pleasure to have you speak at Mt. Pleasant Community Church. I will be sending your blog link to others, thanks again!

Heather

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Matthew Wray September 30, 2009 at 10:52 am

Dave,

What an awesome story. I had never thought of that song in that way, or heard Lennon talk about it. Thanks for sharing.

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